I want to stress here that it’s effortand potential inconvenience, and not money spent. When someone goes out of their way to show you that they’re interested in you, by inconveniencing themselves in some way, or doing something that requires a certain amount of effort, it’s easier to interpret that as a positive romantic sign. Liking a photo, or leaving a comment might show some interest, but it doesn’t require that much effort to double tap a photo, so I wouldn’t read too much into it. Especially if the interest is being shown in an indirect or convenient way. The problem is that romantic interest, and general platonic interest, often look exactly the same. It could also mean they just find you interesting, because you’re just that damn cool. I think indirectly showing interest in someone, whether it’s liking status updates, viewing video “stories” they record, reading their blog or listening to their podcast (😉), etc., can all be indicators that someone *might* be interested in you. If we think of the question like that, is it really all that silly to ask? I’m not going to judge you for wondering if someone showing interest might mean that they’re romantically interest, that’s actually a really good question. Instead of phrasing your question as “If a girl is repeatedly the first to view your snapchat story, is that any indication of interest?”, let’s think about it like this: If she repeatedly shows interest (in an indirect way), is that an indication that she’s interested romantically? When you strip away the fact that the attention is being shown on a photo and video messaging application, and think about this in a general way, it’s less silly than you might think. I might not use Snapchat, or understand the appeal because I’m secretly an old man in a slightly less old man’s body, but you know what, I’m smart enough to know that this might be a sign. Trust me, I’m not going to judge you for reading into someone paying attention to your Snapchat stories. I’m just a freshman in college with a huge crush, so don’t judge, haha. I genuinely feel as if she is out of my league, but every time we see one another when going out we end up talking. I have a MASSIVE crush on this beautiful woman and I’m lost.
Literally every single story I post is viewed by her first. If a girl is repeatedly the first to view your snapchat story, is that any indication of interest?
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